The foundation for intimacy in marriage: 1. A spouse's individual intimacy with God 2. Ministry of encouraging your spouse 3. Bearing with one another 4. Having a sacrificial love 5. Showing kindness to your spouse 6. Not gossipping about your spouse 7. Correcting one another in love 8. Sharpening one another There are more. But after this foundation to intimacy, bedroom intimacy becomes a valuable time. … Read More
Category: Marriage
Money or financial management is the second highest cause of divorce in marriage - coming second to infidelity. How can you and your spouse maneuver through it to enjoy a peaceful marriage and enjoyable friendship through the high and low moments of life? … Read More
Fallen or Failed? Here’s How To Get Back On Your Feet I will be sharing four lessons I learnt from farming my mother’s land. There’s a time for everything What you sow you shall reap If you fall, get up Don’t run away from your problems Click To Listen To The Podcast Here or Read Below My mother inherited a piece of land from her late father, my grandfather Paul. Seeing that the farm was far away from her matrimonial home and that she was already busy managing her business with my father, she asked my sisters and I to … Read More
Imagine your spouse coming to you one day and saying, "Sweetheart, God has told me..." You might instinctively think, "Nope, we are not going to do that." However, as you grow with your spouse, you realize that purpose is continuously unfolding. … Read More
“Please” and “thank you” are one of the simplest ways to communicate to others that you appreciate them and it can encourage them to even go the extra mile. … Read More
We all deserve someone who can correct us, speaking the truth in love in all things - both our speech and our lives expressing His truth - so we can grow up in all things into Him, following His example who is the Head - Christ. Ephesians 4:15 Amplified (emphasis mine). So in marriage, speaking the truth is very Scriptural but 'the how' and 'the when' are equally important. … Read More
After the initial year, I also went and bought myself a "fire extinguisher" lol. I learned to keep quiet when emotions are running high and revisit the issue at an appropriate time. It's been working for about a decade. … Read More
In these two small but packed books, Tony Evans presents the Bible's view on the order of relationships and duties within the home. Very transformational perspectives that helped us start off our union on the right footing. Another great book that helped us was Dr. Emerson Eggerichs' Love and Respect https://bit.ly/kenya-clc-org-love-and-respect where he reveals the secret to couples meeting each other's deepest needs-without love she reacts without respect, and without respect he reacts without love - and a painful, negative cycle begins. … Read More
. I was coming from a relationship that had left me hurting more than I thought I could handle. I was making peace with it and God promised me a great compensation for a husband but I had so much baggage to let go of. … Read More
By Joseph & Margaret Mutitika, Married for 17 years with two children The Mutitika’s will be sharing on the sacredness of marriage – Their marriage experiences. The good, the bad & the ugly. As a Kingdom couple, how have they been able to navigate the challenges of life towards enjoying a good marriage? THE SACREDNESS OF MARRIAGE During a time when many godly marriages fail and end up in divorce or separation, we acknowledge that it takes a lot of faith in God, dedication, and commitment to make a marriage work. We would like to start by stating that our … Read More
Being in love alone is not enough to keep a marriage going, a reality that catches many couples by surprise. Here, we emphasise the importance of training and empowerment in making your marriage work, viewing it as the greatest institution established by God from the genesis of mankind. … Read More