How To Prepare Yourself, Child(ren) and Future Spouse For Marriage

Back On My Feet

In the previous modules, we looked at the causes of single parenthood and went through steps to analyse your situation, forgive yourself (or whoever you feel is responsible – spouse, God, friends etc.) and move on with life. We also looked at the plan to escape from the challenges of single parenthood.

In this module, we will be looking at how you can thrive and flourish in your current stage of life and if you wish to get married or re-marry, how to prepare yourself, your children and a spouse-to-be when the time is right.



How To Prepare For Marriage/Remarriage | Module Outline - Available in Text and Podcast

Far far away, behind the word mountains, far from the countries Vokalia and Consonantia, there live the blind texts. Separated they live in Bookmarksgrove right at the coast

Be A Model For Your Child(ren)

For many children, the most important role models are their parents and caregivers.

Understanding Marriage

Because knowledge is power.

How To Prepare Yourself For Marriage/Remarriage

For you to be an equal contributor towards this purpose you need to prepare yourself toward discovering your individual purpose.

How To Prepare Your Child(ren)

Your child(ren) are critical participants that need to be notified of changes in your marital status.

How To Prepare Your Spouse-To-Be

Letting your spouse-to-be know about your single parenthood situation right away is critical.

How To Do Courtship & Wedding Planning

Knowing how to court and plan the wedding is a foundation for your marriage.

The Blended Family & Life After the Wedding date

With knowledge and understanding, it can be a happily-ever-after life.

Module Resources

Here, you will find different organizations and individuals offering mariagge resources. 

Marriage/Remarriage Module
Have you been hurt so much in the past (by God-seemingly, ex-spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend) that you are afraid to love and be loved again? Here’s a word and preparation to help you get back the desire to marry/remarry…


In this module, we will be looking at how you can thrive and flourish in your current stage of life and if you wish to get married or re-marry, how to prepare yourself, your children and a spouse when the time is right.

Episode 1

Failed or fallen?

Here are four life lessons from farming my mother’s land and we can apply them into life and marriage. 

Episode 2

Be Your Child's Role Model

Your child does not see the flaws you see in yourself (well, not until they become adults) and even so, they will most often be gracious to you because of the sacrifices you would have made for them. 

Episode 3

Understanding Marriage - God's Original Intention with Dr. Sammy Gitaari

We explore what God’s original intent for marriage is. With knowledge and understanding a home is built – we need Biblical principle to make marriage work. 

Episode 4

Forgive Yourself For Mistakes Made In The Past So You Can Travel Light

It’s important to process your thoughts towards forgiving yourself, your ex-spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend, family members as well as overcoming disappointment with God. This will enable you to travel light…

Episode 5

Understanding Marriage


Episode 6

Prepare Yourself For Marriage (Purpose)


Episode 7

Prepare Yourself For Marriage (Loneliness)


Episode 8

Prepare Yourself For marriage (Purpose)


Episode 9

Prepare Your Children For marriage (Be a Model)


Episode 10

Prepare Your Children For marriage (Equal Party)


Episode 11

Prepare Your Spouse For marriage (Counselling)


Episode 12

Prepare Your Spouse For marriage (Parenting)


Episode 13

How to Do Courtship


Episode 14

Wedding Planning


Episode 15

The Blended Family & Life After the Wedding


Episode 16

Q&A with the Achokis & Dr. Sammy Gitaari


Our Sponsors

This podcast and Back On My Feet program are sponsored by CLC Kenya. A Christian Missions Organization that uses literature to impact lives for Jesus Christ. For more info go to 

Other Modules In The Program

Evaluation: How Did We Get Here?

This self-evaluation, if done honestly, will help you become more accountable to God and to yourself as well as empower you to take responsibility for your actions. Use it as a tool for continuous self-improvement.

Tragedy: Separation, Divorce, Death of a spouse and Rape ordeal. 

The Fall: Teenage sexual sin and Adult sexual sin. 

My recovery journey was not a matter of my standing firm on my own.

We are part of a community – the household of faith.

Getting back on your feet financially can seem like a daunting task. However, when you look at the alternatives if you don’t, therein lies the motivation to get started on a plan to take you back to the road called financial independence.

Resources - Destiny Connections

Widows Program

Separation/Divorce Program

School of Marriage (SoMa)

First Time Mums Program

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