The foundation for intimacy in marriage: 1. A spouse's individual intimacy with God 2. Ministry of encouraging your spouse 3. Bearing with one another 4. Having a sacrificial love 5. Showing kindness to your spouse 6. Not gossipping about your spouse 7. Correcting one another in love 8. Sharpening one another There are more. But after this foundation to intimacy, bedroom intimacy becomes a valuable time. … Read More
Category: My Reflection
Money or financial management is the second highest cause of divorce in marriage - coming second to infidelity. How can you and your spouse maneuver through it to enjoy a peaceful marriage and enjoyable friendship through the high and low moments of life? … Read More
As I run this charity drive for books, toys, clothes and household stuff to encourage teen moms in Nairobi and empower children in Nyinyira, Nandi, I am reminded of my needy moment decades back. In that particular year, I had gone through a tough transition in life from backslidden state a year before to giving my life back to God. I lost everything I had and had to start life from “factory settings”. I was so broke that I feared I had also lost myself. But one thing I had, my fire and passion for God. Three years after giving … Read More
Imagine your spouse coming to you one day and saying, "Sweetheart, God has told me..." You might instinctively think, "Nope, we are not going to do that." However, as you grow with your spouse, you realize that purpose is continuously unfolding. … Read More
“Please” and “thank you” are one of the simplest ways to communicate to others that you appreciate them and it can encourage them to even go the extra mile. … Read More
We all deserve someone who can correct us, speaking the truth in love in all things - both our speech and our lives expressing His truth - so we can grow up in all things into Him, following His example who is the Head - Christ. Ephesians 4:15 Amplified (emphasis mine). So in marriage, speaking the truth is very Scriptural but 'the how' and 'the when' are equally important. … Read More
After the initial year, I also went and bought myself a "fire extinguisher" lol. I learned to keep quiet when emotions are running high and revisit the issue at an appropriate time. It's been working for about a decade. … Read More
In these two small but packed books, Tony Evans presents the Bible's view on the order of relationships and duties within the home. Very transformational perspectives that helped us start off our union on the right footing. Another great book that helped us was Dr. Emerson Eggerichs' Love and Respect https://bit.ly/kenya-clc-org-love-and-respect where he reveals the secret to couples meeting each other's deepest needs-without love she reacts without respect, and without respect he reacts without love - and a painful, negative cycle begins. … Read More
. I was coming from a relationship that had left me hurting more than I thought I could handle. I was making peace with it and God promised me a great compensation for a husband but I had so much baggage to let go of. … Read More
You should and must not sell what you don't consume. If what you are selling is so good, you should be the first consumer right? Otherwise it's a scam! … Read More